If you’re anything like me—and if you’re reading this, you probably are—you strive for perfection. Maybe not in everything, but certainly in areas like work, relationships, or hobbies.

How many times has that drive for perfection led you into a cycle of reading books, watching YouTube videos, or listening to experts—without actually taking action? I know it’s happened to me far too often. I could write a book on how to start a blog, but how many blogs have I actually written?

So, where does this stagnation come from?

One word: fear.

The Fear of Imperfection

When I was younger, I felt like I had to try harder than others just to achieve the same level of success. It wasn’t true, but it felt real, and over time, I built habits around that belief. Eventually, those patterns became ingrained in my worldview.

Now, as adults, we look at our colleagues, friends, and family, and that little voice in our heads tells us:

• You have to be the best.

• You can’t make mistakes.

• You have to present yourself perfectly.

• What if they find out I’m a fraud?

• What if I don’t actually know as much as I think I do?

That “what if” is fear talking. It’s anxiety whispering that we’re not good enough, that we don’t deserve respect, that we aren’t worthy of love.

But here’s the truth:

• You are good enough.

• You are worthy of respect.

• You do deserve to be loved.

Perfection is a Myth

Think of all the times you’ve shown up in the world imperfectly.

• The mornings you’ve gone to work without showering.

• The days your car was covered in dirt and grime.

• The countless moments when you weren’t “at your best” but still lived your life just fine.

We chase perfection like it’s the goal, but in reality, just existing as you are is enough. Imperfect doesn’t mean bad—it just means you are.

No More Excuses

This blog took me a year to start.

My YouTube channel? Even longer.

I’ve spent so much time learning—how to structure a talk, how to set up the best lighting, how to find the perfect gear. But let’s be honest...those were just excuses. They made me feel safe—protected from failure, from judgment, from facing that little kid inside me who always wanted to feel more secure.

But today? I’m done waiting.

• Today, I post this blog.

• Today, I make and publish that YouTube video.

• Because I am an amazing person with valuable stories to share.

• Because I can help others on their journey.

• Because I will find joy in my own growth.

Now It’s Your Turn

I see you.

I know the struggle, the internal battle you fight every day. But I also know that you are creative as hell. You have something important to share with the world.

So here’s your sign: take the smallest step today.

• Write a short blog.

• Record a quick video on your phone.

• Do something, no matter how small, to break the cycle of fear.

Stop waiting for the next piece of information. Stop telling yourself you need one more piece of gear.

You don’t.

You just need to start.

You’ve got this. I’m here with you.

Now jump.